December 19, 2008
Do you have people on your gift list for whom you haven’t yet found that perfect present? Are you strapped for cash this season? Were you just looking around your living room wondering when you’re going to have energy to clear the clutter?
Well, I may have a solution: think about “RE-Gifting”. Regifting is the practice of wrapping up an item you have received from someone in the past and giving it a second life by gifting it to a friend or family member. It is common practice not to tell the gift recipient of the regifting, but to pretend it is a new gift just for them.
This concept came up last week when I was talking with a friend about the practice of regifting. She was invited to attend a White Elephant Gift Exchange party and couldn’t decide if she wanted to regift an item she owns or purchase something new. The best part of regifting to me is that you can take an item that you love but haven’t used yet (or haven’t used often enough) and provide it to someone that may really treasure the item.
I am not an advocate, however, of regifting an item that you own and consider to be junk in order to get it out of your space, be funny, or pawn it off on someone else. That practice is what I call “Clutter Passing”. The only places clutter should be passed to are donation centers, recycling bins, or the trash.
One example of successful regifting occurred at a holiday party that I hosted a few years back. My hubby and I invited several other recently married couples over for a fun-filled evening of holiday cheer, and we included a gift exchange in the festivities. We encouraged each newlywed couple to wrap and bring one great item they received as a wedding gift but had no need for, could not return, and had not yet donated. Every one of us had at least one such item we could share at the party.
During the gift exchange it became apparent that the regifting concept was a hit. My hubby and I discovered that the extra waffle maker we had received as a wedding present and had never used was very much appreciated by another couple who had been wanting one for a while. It was great to regift this item to someone that really wanted it. And, what did I receive from the process? Well, one of our friends had wrapped up a bunch of organizing bins that she had received but had never found a good use for in her home. I welcomed the bins with open arms (imagine that?!) and could immediately think of several places I would use them.
What do you have that someone else may be able to use and treasure? Are you a regifter? Perhaps you should consider regifting as part of your holiday routine this year.
Here are some links that you may want to check out for more information on regifting:
National Regifting Day
Regiftable.com